Paddles

Whether on all fours, or over the knee, sometimes your partner or lover has been a little TOO naughty, and a punishment is in order. In comes the paddle. Spanking, whether with an implement or just your hand, is a great entry point for those who are interested in exploring the power dynamic associated with BDSM activities. It can create a scenario that allows couples to test their boundaries, while still bringing in elements of fun and excitement, and can be matched with any comfort level. Spanking is a very intimate act, but what if you’re just starting out and using an open hand makes you feel nervous or unprepared? A paddle can be just the thing to ease the transition into a little light but effective punishment.

A paddle is a solid plank, with a grip at one end which widens at the other, giving the paddler a good amount of control in terms of the applied impact. The classic style of the paddle has a rectangular blade, but rounded ones are widely available. Of all BDSM toys that provide a measure of intense sensations, the paddle is arguably the most enjoyable. Because the intensity of its impact can be very low, depending on the user’s desired degree of satisfaction from paddling, it allows you and your partner to focus on the act itself, and can provide a deep sense of closeness. You’ll find paddles that reflect that, and these may be covered in faux fur, or come in a variety of fun colors. Of course, more minimal paddles are available, with an emphasis on construction for those more experienced BDSM practitioners, and these can be composed of quality materials like real leather. Most paddles have a string, or a small hole punched through the group where one can be inserted, so that it can adorn the wall of your private playground.