Spreader Bars

For couples, engaging in bondage can lead to some the most pleasurable, intimacy enhancing experiences possible. Most BDSM beginners will start with some sort of sensation play, with a component of acquiescence of one partner to another: a blindfold, ball gag or maybe cuffs. For those who want to deepen the dominant/submissive relationship, they may want to consider an item that increases the sub’s deference, while not inflicting any significant pain or discomfort. One effective way to do this is with a spreader bar.

A spreader bar, or leg spreader, consists of one rod with a ring at each end allowing for the attachment of an ankle cuff. When in use, this BDSM item prevents the wearer’s legs from meeting, putting them in a complacent state that can be highly arousing for the partner whose pleasure is derived from being in a "submissive space".

Spreader bars are typically made from metal and can be adjusted lengthwise. Although BDSM toys that influence or force position and provide restraint are for external use, safe materials are always beneficial for any item or product in your toy box, so take that into account when purchasing items like ties, cuffs or even a leg spreader, especially if it includes a fabric over-wrap. They are often, but not always, sold with the cuffs included, so be sure to confirm the specific items enclosed with the product to make sure!